Being a member of an Internet Discussion List, early this week I was allowed to enjoy the newest weekly published cartoon of another list member there. For my feelings this cartoon asked a very interesting question, trapping my mind thinking about it all week.
It was plainly about the question why designer and programmer never will come together …. An interesting question that is! Isn’t it?
Thinking about this question, I found out about my personal answer to it - Not sure I’m right or not with it! But for me it works.
Looking at myself, I’m aware that I have an analytical working brain, while designers for my feelings needs to have a mainly creative working brain for being able to do that they do. This is no absolutism and for sure every brain has both abilities. It is just your very own personal way to deal with or solve your daily problems or more basically just to do what it needs to do for you.
Whenever I’m confronted with something new, like work I have to do, a problem, a decision to make or even just with a new person I meet or I have to deal with, I start to analyze it, him or her … Make my personal plan, decision or judgement about and follow my intuition which is in most cases “more or less” the right one.
This does not mean I’m not able to correct or adjust myself later on again when I recognize that I was wrong. In a difference to that I’m mostly “too quick”, or depending on the way you like to see it in some situations “too stubborn” following and staying with my plan without doubts, for others.
This works for me very well, as for it’s my personal nature to do so. Just for others it often appears cold and rational which is a bonus for work or any critical situation within it needs to keep a cool head. But can turn out into a problem when it means to deal with other humans on a more emotional layer and they start to think about me as arrogant, pushing or demanding.
Guess you just have to know me and to know how to deal with me, for making it working!
Getting older, the more I understand about that issue and the more and the better I can deal with it. Just I often still feel sometimes helpless, when my opposite just plainly acts emotional no longer being able to listen to some given facts and me not being able to follow.
What kind of brain does work for you my friend?